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A Breath Of Fresh Air

It's February. School vacation. We all need a break. We need down time and time to connect. and some time to chill out and relax.

 

Life is busy. We get caught up in our day to day life busy-ness. Our dogs see to it that I get out everyday. Long walks and short runs, sunshine and blue skies or wild winds, I'm out there. I'm grateful for the time alone with the dogs for some time to laugh at them and lighten up, let my mind wander and see life from a different perspective. I need that. It's not an option...for the dogs or for me.

Whether we have kids, dogs, jobs, volunteer work or all of the above, it's easy to get overscheduled, overtired and worn out. Home computers, lap tops and cell phones add much more to the complexity of life. E-mails, social media, television, radio add more. For one reason or another, we have less downtime and quiet to relieve all of our life static. Technology may connect us to others at a distance but it has the potential to disconnect us from the people right here in front of us.

Our kids are on vacation this week. We've already taken some time to get away as a family...just us. We need that. We went up to the cape for a few days and it was wonderful. Cape Cod, our summer place. Whenever we're up there, we live a simpler life...beach, family, friends, sailing, swimming, fishing and exploring.We spend lots of time in the natural environment. Indoors it's simpler too. We don't have TV.

A no TV zone! Yup. We all love it. Maybe it's the Cape Cod air but I think it's the missing antenna. I think without life being snagged away in half hour or hour chunks, it makes a difference and this is coming from me, a woman who grew up with I Love Lucy, The Brady Bunch and even TV dinners on occasion!

When TV isn't an option, each one of us spends more time reading, talking, playing games, laughing together and just hanging around. I like that. It's a good thing to get away to charge our personal batteries. It doesn't have to be far and I know it can't be all of the time, but it sure is nice to get a good fix of uninterrupted family every once in awhile. 

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JC May 22, 2013 at 11:36 am
Owners really need to pick up their dog's waste. It is a major polluter of the Long Island Sound.Read More Whenever your dog drops one and you leave it, think of that fish, lobster, or shellfish you ate from the Sound! Enjoy eating your dog poop bacteria!
Leslie S May 22, 2013 at 08:51 am
I'm so lucky!! For 10 years my dogs have frolicked safely in the back part of Bauer - away from theRead More roads, traffic and homes - closer to the back of the HS. I have never heard any dogs bark or 'yap', never saw a dog run into the gardens and destroy the plots, never saw a dog fight or kids being assaulted and luckily avoided all the poop they are leaving behind although I do dodge the deer pellets. My timing must be stellar to avoid all the bad dogs, their dismal behavior and threats to others. Whew!!
JC May 22, 2013 at 08:47 am
The whole state is tick infested. Luckily, dogs can use a product called Frontline Top Spot or itsRead More cheaper generic equivalent, which completely protects them from ticks and fleas. On the shoreline to Middletown, you should be using it on your dog year round. I once saw a deer tick crawling on SNOW in Madison near the Country School in February. The Lyme vacine is ineffective in most canines and most canines that get Lyme, shake it off in time - unlike humans. Top Spot keeps the ticks off or dead for the humans that pet the dog. Regardless, dogs running on cut grass some distance from woods or taller grass won't encounter many if any ticks. Especially if the outer perimeter of the fence is treated in spring and fall.