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YOUR MOTHER'S STORY by Rozanne Gates

Westport, CT - Mother’s Day comes around every year. It’s a good thing. But unfortunately for my sister and me, our mother is no longer here. We miss her very much. Her birthday is May 8 so Mother’s Day was always doubly celebrated at our house.


There was a time when I had the chance to collect and assemble all her family photos and to record the sound of her voice, but I didn’t do it. Obviously, now it’s too late. My mother used to tell the story of how she sang with Louis Prima. She grew up in New Orleans and music was her passion. When my grandmother finally realized where her daughter was sneaking off to on Saturday nights, she put a stop to it and my mother’s trips to the French Quarter to sing with Mr. Prima ended. My mother used to say, “I could have been Keely Smith.” But hearing my mother tell that story in her own words is something we will never have. That is so sad because it’s a great story.

Three years ago when Suzanne Sheridan and I came upon the idea of helping people document their life stories by using audio interviews and creating photo documentary albums, we knew we had hit upon something special.  Both of us had lost our mothers and our fathers and we got into a discussion about how much we wished we had taken the time to record their stories, no matter what.

The Legacy Project USA was born out of that unfulfilled need. The good news is that many people have taken advantage of our services and have taken the opportunity to document their stories. Some examples are: families whose relatives survived World War II; a wonderful writer and political activist who wants her grandchildren to know and understand the choices she made in her life; a glorious woman in Stamford who spent her childhood as a Japanese prisoner of war on the island of Borneo; a grandmother who celebrated her 80th birthday surrounded by her family and then gathered her daughter and granddaughter around the dining room table while she told great family stories; a man dying of cancer who needed to let his children know who he really was before he passed away; the daughter of Greek immigrants who honored her parents by gifting them with a Legacy Project; a Westport resident who honored her mother by letting her mother tell her story in her own words about how she became a gardener and an artist.

What we have learned is that everyone has a story to tell. Each person is unique and each person is important to someone.  Now that the technology exists that makes it possible to record our stories, The Legacy Project USA wants to encourage everyone to consider how valuable a gift this can be. The Legacy Project USA is here to help you record your stories.  We can be contacted at http://www.thelegacyprojectusa.com or http://legacymasterpiece.com, email info@thelegacyprojectusa.com.  You can also phone at 203-557-0408.

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Charles May 25, 2013 at 06:37 am
As a matter of fact I did watch the CSpan joke of a hearing. There was no available resources toRead More travel to a small consolite in Bahghazi that wouldn't have potentially harmed countless others. A flyover was not possible becasue it was too far away. Instead of drooling over FOX news witch hunts, why not listen to real facts. Your blind hatred for the President is repulsive to readers. Isn't there a Newsmax or Reagancoalition or Oathkeepers website you can post too? There they will believe all of your made uo facts. I understand that having a black man as President is scary to you, but I'm thinking you might have to get used to being in the minority. President Obama is not dishonest, unprincipled or incompetent.
MAC May 25, 2013 at 12:57 am
Charles, you're the one with no FACTS on your side. Obviously you did not watch the BenghaziRead More hearings recently on CSpan. I did, and the whistle blowers made it abundantly clear that there was never any question that it was an "ATTACK" by terrorists, and had NOTHING to do with a "demonstration" over a lame video, as lied about by S. Rice, Obama and HRC! They concocted this story because the truth, that Al Qaeda is NOT "defeated" or neutralized, as O claimed, would have been inconvenient for the election. It is utterly reprehensible for a president to heartlessly leave our men behind, to send NO aid or support, if only to get the bodies out--and a flyover of jets could have scared the terrorists away, as they had no idea (in advance) of how many hours or days the attack would last! Reprehensible also to lie to cover up his incompetence and detachment! You are clueless, as my assessment and Mr. Morici's have everything to do with objective job performance. Your accusations attributing personal motives are "baseless and offensive." Truth has no agenda, but you are not interested in Truth. The question is: why do you accept mediocrity--no, actually worse--from a president, and for our nation?
patricia donohue May 24, 2013 at 05:42 pm
Charles (with no last name). Maybe your house has environmental contaminates. I won't know until youRead More have the nerve to post YOUR last name.
JC May 22, 2013 at 11:36 am
Owners really need to pick up their dog's waste. It is a major polluter of the Long Island Sound.Read More Whenever your dog drops one and you leave it, think of that fish, lobster, or shellfish you ate from the Sound! Enjoy eating your dog poop bacteria!
Leslie S May 22, 2013 at 08:51 am
I'm so lucky!! For 10 years my dogs have frolicked safely in the back part of Bauer - away from theRead More roads, traffic and homes - closer to the back of the HS. I have never heard any dogs bark or 'yap', never saw a dog run into the gardens and destroy the plots, never saw a dog fight or kids being assaulted and luckily avoided all the poop they are leaving behind although I do dodge the deer pellets. My timing must be stellar to avoid all the bad dogs, their dismal behavior and threats to others. Whew!!
JC May 22, 2013 at 08:47 am
The whole state is tick infested. Luckily, dogs can use a product called Frontline Top Spot or itsRead More cheaper generic equivalent, which completely protects them from ticks and fleas. On the shoreline to Middletown, you should be using it on your dog year round. I once saw a deer tick crawling on SNOW in Madison near the Country School in February. The Lyme vacine is ineffective in most canines and most canines that get Lyme, shake it off in time - unlike humans. Top Spot keeps the ticks off or dead for the humans that pet the dog. Regardless, dogs running on cut grass some distance from woods or taller grass won't encounter many if any ticks. Especially if the outer perimeter of the fence is treated in spring and fall.